We Can't All Be Trophy Wives.

Trophy wives. We see them and envy them of their perfection. We are jealous no doubt when we see that perfect way their hair flows and their smile shows. But in reality, we have to realize we can't all be trophy wives. Women have flaws, every one of them, we sweat, we get sick, our hair frizzes or flatens, we get morning breath, we get zits, we grow hair. It happens and it's just a human part of us.

I'm not writing this post to yell at men or tell you how horrible they can be when all they want is that trophy wife, I'm writing it to give credit to men. Yesterday a guy I'm very close with called my Beautiful. He said, if I asked him out he'd date me in an instant. He's always such a gentlemen and very cute but he's not my type and he knows I feel that way.

My point is, even with my flaws, he says I'm pretty or beautiful. And my boyfriend is the same way. He's always telling me I'm so sexy or hot or a beautiful girl. Many times I just don't see it, and I'll just blush thank him and move on.

When a girl sees so many flaws in herself she doesn't expect other guys to say she looks good. She will look in the mirror for as long as possible just trying to find one thing she likes. It's harder for some women and girls then for others but I can promise you all girls get the feeling once in a while at least.

This brings me back to the trophy wife impossibility. We can't all be trophy wives. We can't always wake up in the morning with that perfect hair flow or look in the mirror after a run and look perfectly. First step, is to realize as women and teen girls, we have flaws. We will fail at things, we will embarres ourselves we will be clumsy or laugh weird once in a while. We will make no sense we will sound stupid we will look rough sometimes.

Now here's the next step, the step where I give the men the credit. We have to realize, even with our crazy flaws or mess ups, there's that one guy whose going to love us anyways. He will tell you you're beautiful after you just spent an hr in the mirror thinking you looked horrible. He will kiss you and tell you he loves when you feel low or nervous. He will think it is so sexy when you're sweating (I don't get this one either but I know a good few guys who say it's sexy because you look strong??? XD) He will love you no matter what you do or how you look. This entire post I said we cant be trophy wives. Chicka, look in the mirror right now. You already are a trophy wife. Even if you don't have a bf or husband you're a trophy wife, because you are beautiful and you are smart and you are funny. You look amazing in that top with those jeans and your hair actually looks awesome with that messy look, even if it wasn't intentional (XD) You are a trophy wife to him. That's exactly what he chose you, why he loves you so much, and why you're his.

He looks at you and says "damn she's so beautiful" "god i love her" and so many other things. Believe it or not, you are a trophy wife, and you've been one since the day you were born.

Now maybe you're single, this post still goes to you. All you need is a man to realize that beauty. It's there but some men just don't realize it. Someone wise once told me "You have to love you before you can expect others to do the same." You have to realize you are beautiful and amazing, and not long after so will that special one.

So I hope you guys liked this post <3. And I hope you were interested and learned a thing or two ^^ I love you guys so much soo stay beautiful! Love~Rose