I Dont Need A Man To Define Me

So here is the number one thing I have learned.

I Do Not Need A Man to Define Me! Yes I love the man I am with so very much, and if he and I were to seperate it would hurt me really badly but I realized that I'm capable without a man also. Yes the man I love makes me smile so much each day and laugh and be happy as ever but he isn't what makes me me. What makes me me is the way I blush when my bf or a guy compliments me. What makes me me is how when I say I promise I do all I can to keep that promise in tact for as long as forever.

What makes me me is how I can look in the mirror and just smile because, im in a good mood and god has blessed me very much. What makes me me is how I can take 20 minutes just to choose what color to paint my nails or how I can be the sweetest yet dirtist girl a persons met XD One last thing that makes me me is how I laugh or things like that. See I just listed a ton of quirks and things about me that define me, show me off, make me happy and girly the way I am. Yes my boyfriend makes me very happy but he doesnt make me me. He is a big part of my life but he isn't the biggest, I AM! I mean hey, it's my life lol.

I don't want to see a woman stuck in a bad or unhappy relationship because she feels she needs him or cant get someone better, trust me if he's being an ass you can get better.

Smile today and as you go through the rest of your day or night remember, you don't need aman to define you, and you are beautiful just as you are. ^^