Don't Let Someone Effect Your Mood!

One of my major problems is letting others effect me. Of course people who mean a lot to you are going to effect your mood, happy or sad, but there is a point where you have to say, no that's not right.

Sometimes people are going to take advantage of us. They will make us feel bad when we did nothing wrong or make us feel as if it's us who should say sorry when it so obviously is them. I've had that problem go on a lot in my life, and I wanna put an end to it. Today I was supposed to have an amazing cuddly sexy and sweet day with my boyfriend but it didn't happen. He was busy online and talking to his friends and yes I understand that but a small part of me was broken when I'd check hr after hr with no response to my message. Finally after so long I decided, he's not even here, I shouldn't be here all by myself, so I went out for a bit of fresh air ^^

I told him I was going and left for about an hr and 15 minutes. When I came back he left a note saying bye and good night. No I love you or anything. I felt bad instantly thinking, maybe I should of stayed, maybe I shouldn't of left. Then I realized his message was 36 minutes at least after mine anyways. I realized hey I shouldnt feel bad I did nothing wrong.

I did wait for him and I did tell him i'd be back and I did tell him where I was going. I should not feel the need to apoligize or anything. Something I have to start doing is thinking about the entire situation. Say you get in a fight with someone and end up calling them a name, I need to think, what was this fight about, how did it start?

If you take into consideration the entire plot it might not be fully your fault even if they pin it on you or your over thinking it is. It's really important sometimes to know what caused a problem and where the core of it all is, especially when it's a problem with someone you love or need or want etc. Hopefully this made sense and you guys liked this post ~Love~Rose