The First Woman

Then the Lord God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is right for him." From the ground God formed every wild animal and every bird in the sky, and he brought them to the man so the man could name them. Whatever the man called each living thing, that became its name. The man gave names to all the tame animals, to the birds in the sky, and to all the wild animals. But Adam did not find a helper that was right for him. So the Lord God caused the man to sleep very deeply, and while he was asleep, God removed one of the man's ribs. Then God closed up the mans skin at the place where he took the rib. The Lord God used the rib from the man to make a woman, and then he brought the woman to the man. And the man said, "Now this is someone whose bones came from my bones, whose body came from my body. I will cal her 'woman', because she was taken out of man." So a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and the two will become one body. ~Genesis 2:18-24 After I read this I read a short story about a man and woman who were going to get married. The man brought to his soon to be wife a peice of paper, which after she looked over, turned out to be pre marrige agreement. It covered who got what if they divorced, how many kids they'd have, how they'd pay bills, so much stuff and she was outraged. The mans lawyer wrote it up and she realized he and she had very different views. I then got asked, what are some of my priorities if I was ever to get married which I hope I do one day. One of my biggest priorities with another guy/man has always been support. If a guy/man is constantly pushing me down, telling me what I want to accomplish isn't possible, making me feel like I'm alone on big choices, I can't relate to them, I can't trust them or talk to them freely about my ambitions, my dreams, the things I want in life. Another big one is honesty. I want to be able to trust the man i'm with. I want to be able to believe him if he says things to me. If you're in a relationship where you have to question each word they say, it's not a real relationship at all. I guess one last big one would be...understanding? I have some crazy quirks I admit that, and I'm kinda weird, I'm girly, I ramble. If I'm upset or crying I want a hug and to be told it's okay, If I'm rambling just let me and say you love it (lol) if I need my space let me have it. I need someone who can understand my moods or my actions, or at least try to. I understand if someone needs space or cant deal with me or something. I try my hardest to get people so if a guy could try even just a little to understand and figure me out then i'd be more than greatful. Others would be love or compassion. I love to cuddle, I love to feel important. Another would maybe be surprising. I dont care for big things like diamonds and money, sure they are great but I dont need them to see a guy loves me. Little things like sweet nicknames, a flower, breakfast made in the morning, dishes done once in a while, a bubble bath, little itty bitty things that take five minutes of a persons day. I love those little things and if a guy surprises me with sweet things like that he's garunteed to steel my heart ^//-//^ So this post is crazy and maybe a little rambly, but I don't know why I just felt I should post this and not just keep it inside of me lol. Love you guys and I'm sure there's more I'll post soon, ~Rose

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